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Love
I love you. Is there any other sentence in any language that might have been spoken more number of times than this one? None! Everyone knows it's a fact. But why is it? Is it such a mysterious force as has taken world by the storm? Or is money a bigger one? Any opinions?
What will you do if asked to choose one out of the two? You simply can't have the best of both the worlds! It wasn't for nothing that Jesus had said - "His doors are open to all but for the rich."
All through our life we keep running after money only. And then we have cheeks to repeat the words of Jesus in our Sunday church - His doors are open to all but for the rich! Now, what is it that we are up to? Are we up to ourselves only? In that case, life becomes too narrow an affair to extract any real fun out of it! Money becomes all-important in life then. All our actions on earth are guided (or misguided!) by one single pursuit only - earn more money! We have turned this planet into a business house! Love means care. Not as a protocol, but as passion! Not also as emotion, but only as passion! So if I am involved in you, it means that I care for you. That's what turns me a carefree man without being careless, though a caring one as well without being careful at all!
And if I really care for you, I will never go on saying that I care for you - it will be a little bit too much of self-praise. Hence if I really love you, I will never go on saying I do! But why do I care for you? There may be four reasons behind that:
If I am attracted toward you, you look beautiful to me.
I adore beauty. I tend to come close to it. I care for you - I am anxious. I say I love you. You say you do too.
We come still closer...and more...and more...and more! And then we become one, but only identity wise! We start identifying with each other. If someone abuses you, it's my face that goes red with fury. I still care for you - only that now I am possessive in my care. We say we have fallen deeply for each other. Attraction gets lost; identification comes in between the two to fill the void. Had I not come so close to you, the attraction between the two of us would have kept alive till eternity. If I have some personal motif to be served by you, I make it a point to take an extra care of you.
I handle you with care! I become careful, meaning thereby that otherwise I was careless as far as you were concerned. If you can get me a promotion, I will start flattering you in order to make you feel good about me. If you can provide me with sex, I will start caring for you more than others. And I feel I have fallen for you. I have seen many subordinates falling for their bosses for this motif only. And the bosses falling for their subordinates too, for the same motif again! Love turns into an exchange of commodities in such a scenario. It turns into business, and care turns into carefulness - as opposed to carelessness! If I have started identifying myself with you, I will have limited myself to you only, resulting in my estranged alienation from the world around. I don't have any human concern with the others in the vicinity.
I feel concerned with you only. I have no concern with anyone else on earth. And if someone around turns your enemy, s/he does have to turn my enemy too. Haven't I made a gang with you against the entire world along? Identifying with you has simply blinded my discretion. Love does blind its victim! You can't abuse MY mother; I will kill you, bugger. Yeah, I won't mind if it is someone else's mother! You even can't abuse MY nation. Say anything to any other nation; I am least bothered! This is what identification turns us to be! And mind it, she is MY wife. Don't ever try to come so close to her! And also, if she wants to go closer to someone in her interaction, I will kill her also! Doesn't all our concern fall in this category only, whether sooner or later in our interaction with our beloved? If I love you for none of these reasons, I must be a crazy person out there who has no rationale to justify her/his acts in here at all. Beware of her/him! Her/his actions are incomprehensible. (If we cannot understand a thing, we go scared of it.) "Why do you love me?" - you ask.
"Just because you have two legs and two arms! And even if you hadn't had them, no problem was there." - I say. "But, what do you want from me?" - you go puzzled. "Nothing! Why should I want anything from you?" - I am surprised. "Then what is the point of loving me?" - you challenge the way I feel about you. I laugh aloud - "because there is no point, that's why, my dear!" "But I don't! I don't do!" - you throw your trump card. "Did I ask you that?" - I am meaning every single world of what I am saying. The two of us seem to have come from two different planets, who just don't get what the other is really up to. But unfortunately (or fortunately!), both belong to this planet only. Only that they don't understand each other's language even when they both know English very well! Can we love, on earth, for not only no motif but also for no reason at all? You may say that it's all philosophy and not practical at all.
I will say that practical just means simply selfish and nothing else at all. Don't give your defense mechanisms the names that obscure their real intention. If we don't love without any reason, we are simply selfish. Our concern with motif has turned our world into a hell. And our love without reason can again turn it into a heaven. Are we ready? Or are we selfish? We ourselves have to decide for our own self! Do you feel things should change in life, on earth? If yes, why sit passive? Let's be in the active vanguard. Let's try to change the world! Even trying is its own fun in itself! Here is The Super Mind Evolution System that claims to change your personal life, so if you feel the system is good too - like I do - it may be a humble beginning in the direction of changing the way we live! Just watch this video to check for yourself:
Have A Passionate Love Story To Tell About Your Deep Love?
A story lived by you!
            
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