Pure Romance
Romance is the fore-runner of love. But pure romance is a runner in its own capacity. It doesn't precede the lovemaking act. It rather keeps running its own race. It doesn't have to reach anywhere. But it doesn't stay cool either. It just stays warm. And never goes hot! Never!
In fact, romance prefers to live with the idea rather than its execution. The warmth of passionate desire! One thing that is good about it is that it never lets you go cold! That is what keeps the colors in your life still a little bright as well as the fire in your soul still simmering a bit!
Although not as bright as the color of the spring, nor as hot as the fire of passion within! Romance is an idea. Romance ideas are ideas about how to flirt with this idea! That is what all you will get, which it offers in:
The life, as we live it, has gone so dull and boring that there is no respite from it unless we color it with the colors of romance into it, like romance at office with co-workers. The romance of interacting deep with someone!
The deeper we dig, the brighter go the colors! And the more goes the suspense of still digging it deeper! The fire does have a spark hidden beneath ashes. Just a little fuel is needed to burn the flame as high as the sky! The spark hidden is the spark of true romance. The flame burning is the flame of love. I said, love; I didn't say, lovemaking! Pure romance is not always easy to find. Beware of romance scams! Even if you live in a lush paradise, it can be difficult to find someone that you can see with yourself for long term - in fact, romance makes no commitments to be there for long term ever as it just happened with Matchbook Romance earlier this year in 2007. Only historical romances having a bigger than life stature seem to be able of doing so! My Chemical Romance has passed the test of time till date; but the recently introduced genetically engineered concept of chemical romance is going to prove a big hoax, I suppose. A failed romance causes a fire simmering within you. Here is a Maui dating site for the rescue of that simmering fire within you! And how about the romantic idea of gifting valentine flowers on valentine's day to someone for whom your heart beats an extra!
A perennial and perpetual romance has the power to transport us from the pettiness and shallowness of mundane routine to the depths and heights of love on earth and love in the skies. The only care to be taken is that it doesn't dilute itself by falling prey to lovemaking and ending the suspense of it for good. Let romance remain pure only, and not a step to sex. The moment it goes for that, it immediately starts dying its death by going on diluting itself slowly and gradually. Let pure romance be kept alive. We only need going on increasing its intensity without falling prey to the lure it feels pulled toward!
Let's not let it remain lukewarm only. Let pure romance turn into the pure passion of life. Passion not only for the object of desire alone! But for the life, that is an accident-prone one! Passion imparts discipline to avoid accidents without avoiding living with the pure romance of dangerous adventures in life.
But how to turn the pure romance into the pure passion of life! Are you really attracted toward someone; and the other, toward you? Ask your id, and not your ego or superego. No more tags to be attached - no names to define it, no past history together, no future plans together - just pure romance, and an intense personality-attraction that has extended itself to envelope body-attraction as well! I repeat: no past history together - no future plans together - just pure romance, and an intense personality-attraction that has extended itself to envelope body-attraction as well! Only present - right now, here!
Can you undress in front of each other? And still do not touch each other? And come closer? And still do not touch each other? And come still closer? And still do not touch each other? And so on, and on, and on, and on! One single touch, and your game is spoilt! Rather ruined! You will be dead - energy wise! So, take care! Let the pure romance not die its own death.
There are no hopes for future, because you are never going to touch the other throughout your life! There are no past memories to cherish, because you never touched the other ever in your life! But you are coming closest possible to the other - keeping adding fuel to the fire! Whatever is, is there right now! You are walking on the edge. Take care not to fall. Or else, you lose the game! Not only the game, but also the opportunity to turn the pure romance into the pure passion of life, as well as the opportunity to go beyond your continuous feeling of missing something in life, which you do not know what! Live life on the edge. Your mind goes empty and the brain takes over the control of every action of yours. And this is, what gives a knock at the door of the real love in your life - the love that never dies, nor does it ever fade away with time! Do you feel things should change in life, on earth? If yes, why sit passive? Let's be in the active vanguard. Let's try to change the world! Even trying is its own fun in itself! Have A Naughty Story To Tell About Your Tingling Romance?
A story lived by you!
       
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