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Relationship Advice
Relationship advice must come from a relationship expert. Now what kind of person is one supposed to be who can be taken as a relationship expert? S/he must know all the equations that are at work in a relationship, in depth; and also, what affects their balance whether in favor of or against a relationship.
Generally a psychologist is taken to be such an expert. But I have seen psychologists themselves living Human interaction is not a sum of mathematics that concrete equations - even if complex - will be able to solve for once and for all! It's rather a maze. Relationship advice is not to be a professional's job. It only relates to a wo/man of great insight, for which no university on earth has yet been able to design a curriculum! It MAY never be, too! We humans have not been able to develop that body of knowledge yet. But we can. What does a relationship mean?
It is to be defined as a set pattern of interaction between two humans or something(s) else that develops a protocol of its own, imparting a kind of predictability to the behavior of both in interaction with each other, like in parent child relationship which in fact is a symbiotic relationship, student teacher relationship, boss subordinate relationship, business relationship, family relationship, master slave relationship etc. - all part of our social relationship manual which the relationship advice is designed to address. Also listed in the field of sciences are other relationships, the most important one being the cause and effect relationship. If such standard predictability of protocol is lost or even changes shape, relationship is said to be disturbed, and suffers; like in abusive relationship, anger in a relationship, controlling relationship, relationship abuse, relationship addiction, relationship conflict, relationship problems, relationship sex problems, unhealthy parent child relationship, and all other kinds of unhealthy relationship that ultimately tend to end in a relationship breakup. It is here that the relationship advice comes to its own! But a set pattern of interaction with someone robs you of your spontaneity in interacting with the other. It lacks the glow of spark that ignites only when the two vibes match and resonate with each other.
It's not productive; it's creative. Creativity cannot be predicted. If it can be predicted, it's productivity and not creativity. Relationship advice bothers about productivity, and not about creativity. A relationship, being predictable, is always productive and never creative. It lacks the glow of spark that only an interaction, without any kind of relationship in between the two, can provide. Set pattern of interaction is no interaction; rather it is a mechanical repetition of the standard protocol that the relationship has dictated for you to follow. Relationship is an interaction without any soul within. It's dead. It's dull. BUT IT IS UTILE! It has a great utility in disciplining and comforting the ways of life! But then, are the ways of life, i.e., the way we live, genuine? We must investigate into it, which we shall be doing on the inner pages of this discipline of life.  But right now we must mention a few uncommon kinds of strange relationship too that neither conform to the utility aspect of life nor its spontaneity. Age gap relationship, confidential relationship, lesbian relationship, gay relationship, sex relationship, secret relationship etc. are a few examples of these. These are the estranged areas of relationships that come as a challenge to what relationship advice can do in order to set them right. How to create magical relationship - is a question that stands on the borderline between the relationship advice and the spontaneous interaction - it is like walking on a tight rope where even a slight negligence will ruin the whole game; but if walked successfully, the rewards are unimaginable! Customer relationship and customer relationship management are a full-fledged discipline in themselves which may give a great boost to your business if handled successfully through obtaining technically professional relationship advice. Relationship advice comes to its own when the question to be decided is one of the following:
Relationship questions and relationship issues like these including rebound relationships may seem to need professional relationship counseling and professional relationship help, but it is a debatable issue whether such professional relationship advice really helps or is a mere eye wash. Relationship building is not an overnight job. Leaders as relationship builders are masters in relationship communication. For such kinds of relationship building maneuvers, there are so many tools available that come handy as your relationship rescue:
A healthy relationship knows the value of interpersonal relationship and takes pains to master interpersonal relationship skills.  It also values interracial relationship and long distance relationship as well as long term relationship; since basically law of attraction relationship beyond all boundaries of space and time is what really matters for the health and longevity of a relationship. Love relationship is the most sought after relationship on earth which encompasses love hate relationship also as an anti-thesis of its own one-sidedness. It is supposed to be a monogamous relationship and there is no place for any kind of open relationship in it. Silent treatment in a relationship comes from listening more than speaking and places the stress on action more than on words. There are also telltale signs of relationship that tell the whole story behind the curtain, even if the tongue speaks not! There is a whole repertoire of these:
Tantric relationship is an altogether different kind of relationship that underlines the energy-equations between two opposite sexed persons and suggests ways to enhance and balance the equation, turning relationship into spontaneous energy interaction! But, in life, before the dependence of relationship with one turns into mutually cooperative freedom of interaction with all, we fall prey to controlling relationship through getting trapped in a compulsively addictive mindset of what we see as widespread competition throughout the world today. Do you feel things should change in life, on earth? If yes, why sit passive? Let's be in the active vanguard. Let's try to change the world! Even trying is its own fun in itself! Wanna have some bidding fun with 'Relationship' on ebay auction? You might grab a bargain or two! Just say your bid and you're done: Have An Eye-opening Story To Tell About Your Relationships?
A story lived by you!
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